“Becky, I’ve got this.” The Motorcycle Accident.

Lee had been in the left lane of 465 when a car pulled in front of him. As he slowed, he experienced something called a “tank slapper” or “death wobble” on his new tires that ripped his handle bars out of his grip. At this moment, he said, “I’m going to die.”

Then he blacked out, but witnesses say he was thrown from his bike, bounced twice on his head before his helmet flew off, chin strap still attached, landed again on his head, spun around, and sailed down the road, burning through his motorcycle jacket. His bike was 30 yards ahead of him. 

A semi-truck, seeing he was in trouble, slowed down and blocked three lanes of traffic so he wouldn’t be hit by other vehicles. A pastor from another town was immediately on the scene and prayed over him while he was on the road. The medical team arrived and he was still unconscious. He woke up a little in the ambulance, and they said he was very concerned about what shift day it was and who was transporting him. They did a great job with his care, and he arrived swiftly to the ER at St. Vincent’s.

While he was unconscious, Lee went to a dance party, with lights flashing and people moving to the music. He didn’t see faces, but he felt completely at peace. Content. Without pain. It’s as though God said, “Come over here for a few minutes while something tragic happens.”

1. God’s grace is perfect in our weakness. I have faith that regardless of what is in our future, I know He will be there. We’ve been through trials before, and I know they’ll come again, and I’m just not afraid anymore. I don’t know of another way to explain it. I told Him, “God, if you can be there for me like that again, then why wouldn’t I trust you?” It isn’t just because Lee was ok. It was because God was there.
2. God shows us His love through His people He created. Honestly, I’d been getting really frustrated lately with the policies and procedures at church. In this, God reminded me that His church is His people – wherever they are. And though this includes our friends around the world, I also could not imagine having gone through this without the sweet faces I see every Sunday at our local church. The history, the stories, the community – College Park, I love every single one of you, and I can’t imagine not doing life without you by our side.

• I’m thankful that Lee’s mom, Rita, was there with me to stay on top of the staff and fight for his care. She came every morning and stayed all day. Her life of nursing skills was extremely helpful as together, we made sure he was getting everything he needed to have the best possible outcome.
• My brother and sister-in-law Jack and Andi, with help from our friends the Morans, kept our kids the entire week we were in the hospital. My kids had so much fun, they called it a vacation.
• Our wound care team, with Hedy and Nancy in the lead, went above and beyond to care for Lee’s wounds. They’d answer my texts late at night and spend hours at his bedside, not only doing their job, but instructing me in how I should continue at home.
• Kate and Jared were my caregivers in the hospital while I was caring for Lee. Making sure I was fed, clothed, and rested – they even took turns staying awake at night so I could get a little sleep.
• My parents took care of our new puppy for us, as well as making sure I had what I needed. 
• Lee’s sister and brother-in-law were there, offering their medical advice and overseeing some of the charts. 
• Lee’s dad and step-mom visited often, and I was so thankful for that green smoothie after eating hospital food! 
• Our neighbors and friends the Schweibolds got our mail, did our laundry, and picked up the bike from the lot. 
• Our friends the Johnsons waited with the kids, folded our laundry, and trimmed our bushes.
• Our other neighbors, the Manns, mowed our lawn. 
• Lee’s Fire Chief Griffin and fire fighter Kennedy helped my parents bring us a refrigerator and get the bed ready for Lee to come home. 
• Three different pastors from church visited and prayed with us. 
• Numerous friends stopped by with thoughts and gifts. 
• The dozens of people who brought meals for the entire month of October.
• Mostly, I’m so thankful for all of the prayers. I believe that God heard you, and Lee is recovering well. The entire wound care team has said they’re amazed at how fast his body is recovering. We serve a big God.

One of our favorite nurses.

Kate taking the night shift in ICU.

Unbelievably, the bike still runs.

Leaving the hospital! Hooray!

The adorable banner the kids made.

Our friends, the Patricks, got him this shirt because he flew through the air without breaking any bones.

One of his out-patient appointments was at the Peyton Manning Children’s Hospital wing. LOL